Friday, June 27, 2008
Monday, June 23, 2008
Defination of 'Life Is Hard'
Most people define 'Life Is Hard' as, well, college, assignments, relationship problems and all other bullcraps... well, its NOT...
My defination of 'life is hard' is when we think about our future, what are we gonna do in future, will we be successful in the field of our interest?? where are we heading to, career and also abroad. These are the things we have to be thinking about now, make plans for our future before its too late.
The problem with me is, i always think of the unnecessary stuffs, like will i get a job abroad next time coz ive always wanna work abroad, in places like Paris, New York, as they have very good job opportunities and yes, we are asian, and wanting them to take us in for a job is also a huge huge consideration for them. (Usually the answer is No). And if i don't work here in my hometown, how about my friends, family, loved ones, and.... my home ???? Of course i never thought of wanting to leave them....!?!?!?!
Interest-..Ive always loved travelling and i don't want to stick to only one boring job and work there for the rest of my life. I like to explore other countries, other major cities, having a main occupation while doing part time jobs related to my main job. I love exploring, learn new things from different places. But is it possible??? Does everyone have that kinda opportunity??
Home-.. A nice decorated house is something ive alwiz wanted as its the safest and the most relaxing place in the world. So i dont understand why some people have so many houses. The 4 season houses, one for every season, and a holiday home, this home that home, aint HOME suppose to be the ONLY place u will ever go back to for comfort and safety ?? Im that kinda person who likes to have a nice house where i can go home to every night. But on the other hand, i love travelling to different places, looking for different opportunities in my career.. so how can i make my home, permanant for me?? unless i dun travel that often but only once or twice every few mo
nths for assignments????
Away From Hometown-.. If there is an opportunity for me to work abroad, i will, for sure, take it. But the thought of leaving your whole family behind sucks. its horrible... we leaving our hometown, migrating to the other side of the world, leaving EVERYTHING (since our childhood) behind.. I know for sure my father and my brothers, sisters n everyone wont follow me, nor migrate to wherever i desire to go..... n the thought of leaving my FATHER behind, is horrible, knowing he wont migrate with me to wherever i go also...
Friends-.. Everywhere we go, we meet people... good ones and bad ones.. obviously we dont give two shit bout the bad people we met on the way.. but those we considered best friends, or our best friends for years now, its just hard knowing we will be leaving them, as for sure we are all gonna be scattered around the world, doing different things, knowing that the only way to keep in touch is by the network and that makessss lotzzzzzz of differences compared to being with each other... this sucks... knowing we have to part from our friends, for a long time, hence, FOREVER????
So u see.. why i alwiz think life hard.. its because, the first thing in our live that we HAVE to do is focus on our future, and our goals.. where do we wanan go, and what do we wanan do.. but there are consequences.. it means leaving our friends.. leaving our family.. leaving our home... and leaving these 3 aspect is the most horrible thing to do, but we have to if we want to achieve our goal and target, and our dream.. so life is hard if u really think of it.. there are alot of things which we can easily do, but how about the consequences?????????
My defination of 'life is hard' is when we think about our future, what are we gonna do in future, will we be successful in the field of our interest?? where are we heading to, career and also abroad. These are the things we have to be thinking about now, make plans for our future before its too late.
The problem with me is, i always think of the unnecessary stuffs, like will i get a job abroad next time coz ive always wanna work abroad, in places like Paris, New York, as they have very good job opportunities and yes, we are asian, and wanting them to take us in for a job is also a huge huge consideration for them. (Usually the answer is No). And if i don't work here in my hometown, how about my friends, family, loved ones, and.... my home ???? Of course i never thought of wanting to leave them....!?!?!?!
Interest-..Ive always loved travelling and i don't want to stick to only one boring job and work there for the rest of my life. I like to explore other countries, other major cities, having a main occupation while doing part time jobs related to my main job. I love exploring, learn new things from different places. But is it possible??? Does everyone have that kinda opportunity??
Home-.. A nice decorated house is something ive alwiz wanted as its the safest and the most relaxing place in the world. So i dont understand why some people have so many houses. The 4 season houses, one for every season, and a holiday home, this home that home, aint HOME suppose to be the ONLY place u will ever go back to for comfort and safety ?? Im that kinda person who likes to have a nice house where i can go home to every night. But on the other hand, i love travelling to different places, looking for different opportunities in my career.. so how can i make my home, permanant for me?? unless i dun travel that often but only once or twice every few mo
nths for assignments????Away From Hometown-.. If there is an opportunity for me to work abroad, i will, for sure, take it. But the thought of leaving your whole family behind sucks. its horrible... we leaving our hometown, migrating to the other side of the world, leaving EVERYTHING (since our childhood) behind.. I know for sure my father and my brothers, sisters n everyone wont follow me, nor migrate to wherever i desire to go..... n the thought of leaving my FATHER behind, is horrible, knowing he wont migrate with me to wherever i go also...
Friends-.. Everywhere we go, we meet people... good ones and bad ones.. obviously we dont give two shit bout the bad people we met on the way.. but those we considered best friends, or our best friends for years now, its just hard knowing we will be leaving them, as for sure we are all gonna be scattered around the world, doing different things, knowing that the only way to keep in touch is by the network and that makessss lotzzzzzz of differences compared to being with each other... this sucks... knowing we have to part from our friends, for a long time, hence, FOREVER????
So u see.. why i alwiz think life hard.. its because, the first thing in our live that we HAVE to do is focus on our future, and our goals.. where do we wanan go, and what do we wanan do.. but there are consequences.. it means leaving our friends.. leaving our family.. leaving our home... and leaving these 3 aspect is the most horrible thing to do, but we have to if we want to achieve our goal and target, and our dream.. so life is hard if u really think of it.. there are alot of things which we can easily do, but how about the consequences?????????
NEW YORK CITY.... ~city that never sleeps~
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